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I’m Lee, and I’m delighted to welcome you to the Calm Collective, where my mission is to help professional women like you overcome adrenal fatigue naturally and reclaim your energy and peace. This blog is your sanctuary for discovering effective strategies and practical advice to break free from the cycle of stress and fatigue.

Understanding that the journey out of adrenal fatigue is both necessary and deeply personal, I focus on sharing small, impactful changes that can make a significant difference in how you feel each day. We’ll explore everything from how to nourish your body and mind with stress-busting foods and relaxation techniques, to finding ways to streamline your daily tasks to reduce overwhelm.

If you’re tired of feeling constantly drained and ready for a revitalizing change, you’re in the perfect place. Let’s embark on this path together, learning and growing as we move towards a life marked by balance, wellness, and vibrant energy.

Here’s to beating adrenal fatigue naturally and embracing a happier, healthier you!

What Happens in Your Body When You Hold Onto Trauma?

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Trauma isn’t just something that happens in the mind—it lives in the body, shaping the way we feel, react, and even function daily. Whether it’s a single distressing event or prolonged stress, unprocessed trauma gets stored in the nervous system, influencing everything from muscle tension to digestion and emotional regulation. Let’s explore how trauma responses show up in the body and what you can do to support nervous system recovery.

The Body’s Response to Trauma

When you experience a traumatic event, your body activates its fight, flight, freeze, or fawn response, survival mechanisms designed to protect you. However, if trauma remains unresolved, these states can linger, creating chronic stress patterns that disrupt your physical and emotional well-being. Here’s how it manifests:

  • Hypervigilance & Anxiety – Your nervous system remains on high alert, making it hard to relax.
  • Muscle Tension & Pain – Trauma can cause chronic tightness in areas like the neck, shoulders, and jaw.
  • Digestive Issues – The gut-brain connection means trauma often leads to bloating, IBS, or nausea.
  • Sleep Disturbances – Difficulty falling or staying asleep is common when the nervous system is dysregulated.
  • Emotional Numbness – In a freeze response, the body may suppress emotions to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

How Trauma Gets Stored

The nervous system doesn’t always recognise when a threat has passed, leading to trapped survival energy in the body. This can create cycles of stress, emotional triggers, and even physical symptoms. Trauma is often stored in:

  • The Fascia (Connective Tissue) – This can lead to body stiffness or chronic pain.
  • The Vagus Nerve – A key player in nervous system recovery, it regulates stress responses and digestion.
  • The Breath & Posture – Shallow breathing and protective body postures can be signs of unresolved trauma.

Supporting the Nervous System

The good news? The body has an incredible capacity to adapt with intentional support. Here are some science-backed ways to help your nervous system reset:

  1. Somatic Practices – Movement-based therapies like yoga, shaking, or stretching help release stored tension.
  2. Breathwork – Deep, intentional breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, signaling safety to the body.
  3. Cold Therapy & Vagus Nerve Stimulation – Exposure to cold water or humming/singing helps tone the vagus nerve.
  4. Mindfulness & Grounding Techniques – Practices like meditation, tapping (EFT), or walking barefoot regulate nervous system responses.
  5. Therapeutic Support – Trauma-informed therapy, EMDR, or body-based therapies can assist in deeper recovery.

Releasing Trauma for Long-Term Wellness

Trauma doesn’t have to define you. By working with your body instead of against it, you can shift from survival mode to a place of balance and calm. Recovery is not about “getting over it” but rather giving your nervous system the support and safety it needs to let go. One step at a time, you can move towards a more regulated, resilient, and empowered version of yourself.

Your calm is worth it.

About Leanne

Lee Tomlinson, the principal coach and founder of Nurture & Move, offers a compassionate approach to helping professional women nurture their nervous system so they can cope better in work and life. Through her expertise in integrative health and trauma-informed coaching, Lee supports women in naturally restoring balance, resilience, and energy. Her methods encompass a wide range of health and wellness disciplines, focusing on holistic strategies tailored to address the unique stressors affecting women today. Lee’s coaching empowers clients to navigate stress effectively, regulate their emotions, and enhance their overall well-being and quality of life.

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